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Each year we receive fundraising requests from multiple young people wanting to go on a summer mission's trip. And they want us to help pay for it.
Typically they're trying to raise $3,000-$5,000, and they're traveling somewhere in the third-world. They're going on the World Race or serving at an orphanage, teaching a Vacation Bible School or building a facility. Absolutely, 100% worthy things.
BUT ... (and please hear me when I say this--I mean this genuinely and with grace), sometimes I question whether it's really helping these young people when we front the bill for their world-travel, short-term mission experience.
Hand ups v. hand outs, right? Why is it acceptable for us to give hand-outs for short-term missions trips, but adamantly discouraged by ministry organizations to the poor in the third-world? Don't the principle reasons against hand-outs apply across the board?
In When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor and Yourself, we learn that "material poverty alleviation involves more than ensuring that people have sufficient material things; rather, it involves the much harder task of empowering people to earn sufficient material things through their own labor, for in doing so we move people closer to being what God created them to be. Second, work is an act of worship. When people seek to fulfill their calllings by glorifying God in their work, praising Him for their gifts and abilities, and seeing both their efforts and its products as an offering to Him, then work is an act of worship to God."
Could these realities be true for short-termers as well?
No doubt the student's church or college has asked them to hit up friends and family to help pay for their trip. These kids are listening to the guidance and mentorship of others. It's just 'the way' we Christians fundraise. But is it best?
I would rather, in a heartbeat any day, donate to a student's mission trip by hiring them to work for me (around the house, with my children, mowing our lawns, pruning my 27 rose bushes, washing windows, wiping down the doors and walls of little fingerprints, painting, etc). Because when he works for what he wants, he's more invested. And the missional experience becomes about more than the 7 days he's in Africa. It involves the trying and testing the faith, months of hard work and persistence, and the blessing of worshipping God by working.
We must consider that the process for raising money for the trip is just as important as the actual trip itself. "Who pays, and what they pay for matters. This is a learning experience, not a trip to save the world. Learners are more likely to value their training if they are paying for a portion of it. Participating in a few hours in a fundraiser is probably not a large enough sacrifice for people to have a sufficient stake in their educational experience." (When Helping Hurts, 178)
What would happen if a student, so desiring to go on a mission's trip to Kenya, works part time for 16 weeks (an entire semester), doing odd jobs in his spare time, saving every penny, forgoing the movies and In-and-Out so that he can go on the trip? He's now invested his physical energy, his time; he's sacrificed wants, and done it for months, not just a few days. Does the investment he makes on the front end make the actual trip itself more anticipated? What character traits has he learned, and what kind of faith building has he experienced because he persevered?
Let's say the student, challenged to raise HALF of the money on his own efforts, creates a flier about the services he can provide. But through that flier he only gets responses from five people, earning $300. What will he do now? He's in a predicament, and he still needs to earn thousands of dollars. Does he then send out letters to 200 people asking for donations? Perhaps his parents can sit down with him and coach him through other ways he can earn his way. He makes a list of ideas, he strategizes, and he gets on the offensive by cold-calling. He goes door to door asking if he can walk dogs and mow lawns. He calls up people in his church offering housecleaning and babysitting. He works a whole Saturday shredding paper in a law office. He has a garage sale, bake sale, and two car washes. He trudges blanket to umbrella to beach chair on Memorial Weekend at the beach, pulling a hefty ice chest selling bottled water at $1 a pop. This is hard work, but it's good for him. He makes another $1,000.
He decides to sell a few possessions on craigslist. His skateboard and gently used baseball bat, a few XBox games. He chooses to eat whatever he can find in the fridge rather than eating a bean and cheese burrito. He begins looking at what he owns and sifting through things he doesn't need because everything has a monetary value. He earns another $500 selling what he doesn't need, and saves another $200 because he stopped spending frivolously.
And if, after 16 weeks of working extremely hard, sacrificing, devoting, selling what he doesn't need and offering his services to any employer who would hire--if he still needs money then, you say, as a parent, "I see how much you want this and how hard you've worked. I want to chip in and help you because I believe in you." Or he then sends out a fundraising letter to friends, sharing all he did on his own merit, how much money he raised personally, asking them to push him over the finish line.
After he sends out the fundraising letter comes the prayer. Because he needs the generosity of others to make it possible. He experiences the humility of asking for help--how pride-swallowing and difficult it can be to accept help from friends (rather than expect it). And gratitude flows when money pours in.
Now we have a man more prepared than ever for real 'missions work.' He's grown in character, determination, and faith; he's learned skills and practiced humility; he's grown in his manhood--learning how to provide for himself (and probably grown in confidence too). And when he boards that flight to Kenya, he leaves prepared to inherit the blessings of a short-term experience.
"Development is a lifelong process, not a two week product." (168) The author is referring to in-country sustainable development, but this truth applies to the development of people too. We must look more carefully at the process of character development denied our students when they are instructed to lead their fundraising efforts by asking for a hand-out.
16 comments:
Hallelujah!!! to all of it!
Love this! In addition, I wish people thought through the purpose of mission trips....We know a girl who is going with a group to Africa, solely to give their testimony and quickly lead kids to Jesus, and then go home.....that really bothers me :(
Caris and Shelly, thanks for your feedback! Yes, Caris, I know what you mean. There's actually a part in that book, When Helping Hurts, that addresses the purposes behind Short Term trips that I believe is extremely insightful too. I think that book would be great reading for any short term team. It might burst the bubble of an oober enthusiastic short termer, but it does such a good job of giving the greater picture of missions and addressing things like conversion and discipleship.
I've had that book in my queue for awhile now...I might have to bump it up closer to the top. It sounds like a good read. It lost some of it's appeal to me when my MIL told me she was reading it....to figure out how she could raise money for own organization. ????? I thought that was kind of the opposite point of the book, so then I just didn't want to read it, LOL.
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Part of the purpose of fundraising through donation solicitation is helping the short-termer to learn that missions is a for the whole church, not just a few "called" individuals. Part of it is for them to learn to ask for and receive the support of a home church, not to see themselves as lone rangers out to save the world. Missionaries are sent people, and part of sending is supporting. Personally, I take joy in donating to short term and long term missions because by doing so I become a part of the ancient work of God.
I agree with anonymous. One of the faults of Americans is our pride and independence. It is a great lesson to not only teach our children to work hard for themselves but also to accept help from others. There is nothing wrong with getting financial support from others. As far as short-term missions are concerned I think it is a great experience for anyone to be able to see how others live to not only be a help to others but to give them perspective on how to live their own lives.
Thanks to anonymous and Akgantz for your thoughts. I agree that accepting help from others can sometimes be an even greater challenge (for some people) than working to pay your own way. There are many places, too, in Scripture where believers share and give monies for the purpose of advancing the gospel--so I am in no way saying we shouldn't fundraise and/or rob the Body of the joy of participating in the work. I'm suggesting however, that if we are going to fundraise for a short term trip we should be also raising our own dollars to contribute (for a more vested interest), as well as altering our lifestyle to be good stewards of donated monies. Perhaps it would also be educational for short-termers to participate in a class about donor care and how to invite the partners into the work.
karen i love how you always bring great conversation to the table on many "established" practices in our Christian culture. i love what you said, and i agree with anon also, in terms of the body being an important part of any missions work. i think what you're saying, though, is that there should be an order to the process of fundraising for a trip that involves more of the person's heart, and i fully agree. i will be certainly using these ideas when my kids are older and want to go on these kinds of trips. and on the other side of that same coin, i feel resistant in my flesh and convicted because of it when it comes to me personally; my hubs is going on a trip next year and needs to raise $10K. your post is revealing an unwillingness in me to help work for that, and sacrifice our family's resources - even time - to get him there. i need to spend time working this out. thanks for the thoughts....
I think these principles apply across the board, not just to short-term missionaries, but also to the people we are ministering to, also here at home. How many of us feel badly about not helping a relative who is clearly not WILLING to do the work?
EG: a friend of mine has a brother who has a proven track record of being unreliable and irresponsible, yet she feels badly refusing to give him money when he asks.
It seems like the principles in the book would apply well to her situation too, giving him opportunity to work for what he needs is in no way going to hurt him.
I don't feel I can adequately say what I want in this little comment! I think you can get the gist of it though!
Well said, Karen.
You do make a good point and a class on fundraising/earning funds for missions is a great idea. As with anything swaying too much either way could be a problem. Balance is the key, earning some and recieving some help would be great. All you can do is hope and pray that the person going on the trip has his/her heart in the right place and if not that their heart will be changed for the good when they return.
this is great stuff karen. to expand the idea further, i think students that are thinking about possible full time 'missions' or 'ministry' need to think more entrepreneurial. we're trying that with the students we are working with this summer. the 100% support model might be an endangered model and maybe for good reason.
I am really enjoying this dialogue. Tony, I completely agree about being more entreprenurial. It's great you are working on that with your students. Leslie, I'm always grateful for your thoughtful comments.
Something I do believe, based on my fundraising experience with non-profits, is when it comes to motivating *some* donors, the frugality of the asker can matter, as well as the communicating of the vision. I didn't really mention this in the article because it was too long and took things in a different direction. But to just add to the conversation, I suspsect that if a student sends out a fundraising letter but is not outwardly contributing to his trip, if he's going to the movies and eating out and doesn't have a job, it is less likely to inspire partners to participate. Of course we ask the Spirit who to give to and how much, but perceptions do matter, and when donors see students invested, earning some of it with their own hard work, and honed in on their goal, they feel in it WITH them, not just FOR them. That will probably result in more generous giving, as well as a greater feeling of partnership for both. At least I suspect so.
Karen, We get 15-20 letters every summer from kids going on trips. There are plenty of kids and their families who pitch in to pay for their short tem mission trips. Just because the student didn't spell it out in the letter for you, doesn't mean it isn't happening. All the short term trips we've been involved required the kids work for as much as their way as they can. You need to trust that the leaders of the trip have weeded out the kids that are going for a "travel adventure" and that God is controlling the trips these kids are on, and are working in the kids themselves. Trust the body of Christ that they are moving in a way that God is directing,even when you don't know the details.
Hi! I actually stumbled upon this blog post as I was looking for advice in writing a fundraising letter for a short-term missions trip. I will be asking friends and family to support me financially and through prayer as I hope to spend a month working in a medical clinic. I am a full-time college student that started working as a freshman in high school to begin saving money for college. I've had at least 1 job at all times since 13. 6 years later, I am a junior in college, working three jobs this year. I've also worked every summer since I started high school, and I pay for my private, liberal arts education (plus room and board). I bought a car last summer (to get to and from work) and pay car insurance. I can't remember the last time I've gone out to eat or gone to the movies. I've wanted, since I was 14, to go on a short-term missions trip to Africa. I've been given the chance, but I am fundraising 100% of it, because I simply do not have any extra money since college/car costs take all of it. Some of us who ask to be supported completely are still hard workers and very invested! Thanks for your thoughts-I did enjoy reading your post.
Wow
Great discussion--it's all about our heart--our motivation. Here's two cents from a surgeon, author and short termer.
Missions(and life itself) is all about allowing God to lead and provide. With an attitude that is God focused--whether it's hardworking elbow grease, a helping hand from others,or a combination--God must be the central focus.
The Apostle Paul was a tent maker--and tried if at all possible to provide for himself by working--but also balanced that out with receiving--the whole book of Philippians is a response to a gift that was sent to the Apostle--read the last part of chapter 4.
Having led teams to Africa--I've seen both extremes and their positive and negative effects. But as a short termer we must be ready to our part--whatever it takes and not approach fundraising with a sense of entitlement. God centered.
Here's an idea:
I'm currently publishing a children's book--Climbing the Upside Down Tree (written on a short term trip in Africa)-- in 2013 that is designed to help short termers raise money by selling books to help fund their trip. It involves some work-- but also gives plenty of room for God's gracious provision. Does that idea resonate with you?
If so--let me know
chuck page--camino real publishers
thanks
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