Friday, January 11, 2013
More on Books: Practical Tips for How to Make More Time for Reading
Today I want to give you 7 tips for carving out more space in your day for reading. I mentioned before that I have on my 2013 list a desire to spend more time growing my mind through reading. Here's the blunt truth. At the end of a long day, getting the kids off to school, taking care of errands, consulting with a client, writing on this blog, querying publications, helping another writer with his work, exercising, meetings, then picking up the children from school and taking them to and from their various activities, cooking dinner, cleaning up, bathtime and bedtime, I am spent.
I am asked the question a LOT. WHEN do you have time to read?!
If I'm honest, even though my days are very full, I do spend a lot of time each week on relatively meaningless, brainless activity. I actually think I could read significantly more than I already do!
Please note, I don't believe every single moment of our day needs to be in an intense "growing yourself" exercise. I place high value on community, rest, and simply 'being.' But I know we all have our little time suckers in a given day.
7 Ideas for Carving Out More Time for Reading
1. Reduce your intake of social media and replace it with a book. Zoe Fox said in this article that the average user spends 7 hours a month on Facebook. 7 hours. Now, I read fast, about 45 pages in 60 minutes. So if I cut my Facebook time in half, I could get another book in each month! I spend even less time on Twitter than I do Facebook, but I do occasionally find myself sifting the Twitterverse in evening before bed, and to be straight, I don't even know why I'm there. What am I looking for? I think I'm simply bored. I should either close my eyes and go to bed, or pick up the excellent book on the nightstand. Nothing on Twitter or Facebook at 11 pm cannot wait until the next morning.
2. Shake up your routine. Just like exercise, if you want to add more reading into your life, you need to determine ahead of time when you will do it. Decide to wake up 15 minutes early. Drink your cup of coffee with a book instead of your iPhone. Pack a book in your computer bag, purse, or briefcase and use 15 minutes during your lunch break to go outside, sit in the sunshine and read a few pages. Choose to go to bed 20 minutes early, and take your book with you. Decide one day during the week where you devote your lunch hour toward reading (and stick with it). Take a book with you in the car for those 15 minutes while you sit in the pick up line waiting for school to get out.
3. Go audio. Bookguy "reads" almost entirely via Audible.com. He downloads books to his ipod, and then listens to them when he exercises in the morning (45 min). He also listens to them to and from work in the car. He has a relatively short commute (10 min each way), but that's 20 minutes of extra reading he gets! Finally, he often listens to books while he's in the shower and shaving and getting ready in the morning. This is how we enjoyed Jon Acuff's Quitter. I am a visual learner and I love to mark up books with scribbles and underlines and smiley faces (sometimes I even draw in the margins) so this might not be your learning style. But if it is, it's an extremely effective way to boost your reading time.
4. Turn off the TV. The New York Daily News reported in September 2012 the average American spends 34 hours a WEEK watching TV. That is mind blowing to me. This means the average American spends about as much time at work as they do watching television?! Choose a night during the week and devote it to reading. No TV, iPod, iPad, iPhone or anything electronic. You'll be amazed at the peace and quiet. I dare say it's a strange thing to sit in one room with your whole family with everyone turning pages. Our little four-year-old can't read yet, but he'll lay on the floor in a pile of books and flip through looking at pictures, sometimes talking out loud making up a story to accompany each drawing.
5. Set a family goal. Make a family 'reading' chart, and set a goal together for how many pages your family will read in a given week. Set rules that every person in the family must contribute a minimum amount of pages a day. At the end of the day each family member logs in the number of pages he or she read. We have a 9, 7, and 4 year old. A family goal could be 100 pages collectively a day, expecting each family member to read a minimum of 25 pages a day. At the end of the week, total the number of pages. Decide in advance "rewards" for your reading efforts. Ideas for rewards could be, a family movie night, dinner at a favorite restaurant, ice cream sundae bar, Saturday morning donuts. You could even have different 'levels' of rewards: gold, silver, bronze, for the number of pages read. If you don't want to do pages, you could set a goal of reading time each day.
6. Find a new reading spot. I can read for hours sitting in a corner at Peets. In my house, however, not so much. Laundry is staring me in the face, children are interrupting, I'm distracted by the tyranny of the urgent. I've tried to convey to Bookguy before what it is like for stay-at-home working mothers to "Sabbath" in their house. Imagine trying to rest or relax or refuel sitting next to your desk with piles of work staring you in the face. That is how I often feel in my home, if I'm being frank. To remove myself from this environment makes all the difference. Bookguy has a spot too--a reclining chair in our living room by our fireplace. Sometimes simply having a location where you habitually go to read, where your work isn't a distraction, can make all the difference.
7. Join a book club. Everything is better in community, isn't it? If there's a book you're interested in reading, see if another friend would read it at the same time. My friend Marie and I have talked about reading Prodigal God together. My next door neighbors read Brene Brown's book Daring Greatly at the same time as we did (which afforded some excellent conversation!). It always works well when Bookguy and I are reading a book at the same time. Google to find book clubs in your city or area. Join an online book club (if you're a woman) with the ladies at Incourage.me or for co-ed, secular book clubs, BarnesandNoble.com or (of course) there's always Oprah's book club on Goodreads. Books don't have to be a thing that withdraw you from friends. They can, like movies, become something you enjoy together. And then you don't feel like you are choosing between community or reading, but you are actually multi-tasking, saving time by doing both together.
What do you think of these ideas? If you have any thoughts to add, please share! I'm always open to hearing from you!